The Person You Want to Attract

The people who you are attracted to are those who possess are great qualities— whether that is intelligence, ambition, generosity, kindness or a loving, affectionate, romantic nature — the list is endless. But for you, to be able to attract high value/quality people, you must possess good, attractive qualities too. Attraction must be mutual. So if …

Keeping Up Appearances

Appearances, self image, how we view ourselves is paramount and affects us in everything we do. Yet our physical appearance and how others see us, can be very different from how we view ourselves - our self image. We all hold certain beliefs about ourselves, which manifests as particular traits we believe are part of …

The Servant, The Master

His manners, cool and aloof— unaffected. Character, assertive and self-assured. Proud and prejudiced, his ways Yet seemingly noble in others. I convinced my heart he had My best interest in his. Though stuck in his old ways, Never once did I question, Though master I was. All my life, all his life He had served me. …

Ideals and Standards

We often project ideals - flawless, faultless, perfect versions of the people we're attracted to, people we are interested in. But these qualities are just ideals. People are not flawless nor are they faultless, they are real and human with their good traits and bad traits. Seeing only their good traits in your idealised version of them …

Facets and Your Best Self

Facet. Defintion: noun. One side of something many-sided. Oxford dictionary. It only takes 5 seconds to judge someone, to form an impression. Whether or not that impression remains after getting to know that person, is an entirely different matter. We all have different facets of our personalities. People are hugely complex. We have both good and bad …