The Person You Want to Attract

The people who you are attracted to are those who possess are great qualities— whether that is intelligence, ambition, generosity, kindness or a loving, affectionate, romantic nature — the list is endless. But for you, to be able to attract high value/quality people, you must possess good, attractive qualities too. Attraction must be mutual. So if …

Lessons from Heartbreak

    After much resentment, pain, and sadness, and much deliberation, analysis and introspection from what really did feel like my heart breaking (— they say emotional pain triggers the same neural pathways as physical pain), I realised that I am not perfect but that what I am is enough. I am human and humans …

Ideals and Standards

We often project ideals - flawless, faultless, perfect versions of the people we're attracted to, people we are interested in. But these qualities are just ideals. People are not flawless nor are they faultless, they are real and human with their good traits and bad traits. Seeing only their good traits in your idealised version of them …